Psychology of Insecurity

  Here lately, men and women are finding themselves more and more insecure about their body and sexual performance. Paid programs on television contribute to these feelings that both sexes are experiencing. These programs talk about how women prefer large, muscular men and how men are more attracted to skinny, large chested women. To this, men start ordering and taking pills that promise results to make them more attractive to women, and ladies will starve  themselves and get surgery in order to be more sexually appealing. Guys and girls both worry so much about pleasing the other, disregarding any ego-building compliments that they may receive, feeling that they are insincere. We, as people, need to attempt to meet a happy medium between men and women, acknowledging each of us for what we have while still trying to improve little things that wont hurt anyone. Men don't deserve to constantly think they are inadequate in so many ways. Equally, women don't deserve to think they need to be thin and big-breasted in order to feel "sexy". If men would stop worrying and women would stop complaining, and both attempted to be their best at life, happy, honest, and themselves, then so many psychological issues with social and sexual inadequacy wouldn't exist. Insecurity is too big of a problem to turn away from. Try to do what you can to balance this problem.